Dear Abby: I feel like I'm funding my friend's online resale business

A person has been giving gifts to a friend, but discovered the friend is selling those gifts online through a resale business rather than using or keeping them. The gift-giver is frustrated because this pattern is ongoing, not a one-time occurrence. They have decided to stop funding the friend's business through gifts and plan to give gift cards instead in the future.

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Cleveland Plain DealerLean Left· 7d ago

Dear Abby: I feel like I'm funding my friend's online resale business

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The OregonianCenter· 7d ago

Dear Abby: I'm done funding friend's online resale shop. Next time they're getting gift cards

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AL.comLean Right· 7d ago

Dear Abby: I'm ticked off my friend sends me kids' gift list - then sells the presents I buy